Entries by Patch Aure

Can we “pilot” trust?

Can we “pilot” trust? How can one be trusting but not gullible? I connect the principles of the lean startup with today’s gospel about trustworthiness. The lean startup principle can be summed by using pilots and rapid prototyping of products (minimum viable products) to manage risk, avoid “one time big time” investments and distribute risk […]

Dear prudence, won’t you come out to play?

Dear prudence, won’t you come out to play? Both well-intentioned and ill-intentioned people can use insight and judgement to achieve their ends… and in essence, this is prudence. Thus, a well-intentioned person cannot solely rely on faith alone; or, one must expand the meaning of “faith” to include the synthesis of a reasonable mind and […]

Why do we mourn?

Why do we mourn? These past few years – few weeks even – have featured times of grieving and mourning. We have to make peace with the fact that death is a natural part of our lives; but that peace does not dilute the strength of emotions we feel when we lose someone. In a […]

Being comfortable with paradoxes

Being comfortable with paradoxes It is fascinating that profound life lessons of parables are presented in terms of paradoxes. Why can’t lessons of parables be as simple and straightforward as possible? Maybe it is a reminder that life is not a linear journey. It is messy and iterative and full of frustrations. But the more […]

Where does our will come from?

Where does our will come from? Yet again, my reflection revolves around the importance of insight. The strength of our will or our resolve emanates from our ability to gain insight or create meaning even if we feel stuck like Sisyphus. What’s fascinating is that gaining insight or meaning-making cannot be forced; nor is it […]