Flow and authenticity

According to Csikszentmihalyi, flow is a state of complete absorption and focus in an activity, where the person loses track of time and is fully engaged in the task at hand. This state of flow is characterized by a sense of control, effortless action, and a feeling of satisfaction.

What if we can frame flow as a response to avoid hypocrisy? Our perennial challenge is to avoid performing good deeds for the sole purpose of receiving recognition or praise from others.

If we can frame the state of flow as being fully engaged and immersed in one’s actions, flow can be a way to demonstrate authenticity, without concern for external validation or reward. In other words, we are motivated by the intrinsic value of the deed itself, rather than external factors.

Imagine if we can redesign learning platforms as an ecosystem that is conducive to flow.


Matthew 6:1-6, 16-18. Take care not to perform righteous deeds in order that people may see them.

[DAILY GOSPEL INSIGHTS AND REFLECTION FOR MANAGEMENT AND ORGANIZATION 2023-053: FEBRUARY 22, 2023]

Another reflection on GOATs, rankings, and flourishing within the ACM program

The past few days have allowed me to reflect on the journey of our BS in Applied Corporate Management (BS-APC or ACM) students during the pandemic. I’ve been reading their reflections on their personal journey. For the recent ACM alums, it’s heartwarming to see them graduate into a more optimistic post-pandemic era. The icing on the cake: another ACM student was chosen to deliver the university graduation speech!

As a product of the program myself, I’ve come to intimately understand the ACM program’s traditional characteristics: its three-term full-time internships and “competitiveness”, brought about by the yearly qualifying examinations and aspirations to intern at popular multinational companies. Students have expressed how they’ve felt the pressure to hustle, to keep up with their peers, to join multiple student orgs, do part-time internships while doing acads (brought by the online learning mode!), and so on.

In the last five years, we’ve been recalibrating the ACM program to emphasize humanistic and sustainability management strongly. This is so we can be consistent with our goal to produce authentic catalysts for change. It is imperative that we promote human, societal, and ecological flourishing.

For me, what’s romantic about “flourishing” is that it is not a zero-sum game. Whereas there can only be one GOAT or champion, in theory, everyone can flourish. We can all be the best version of ourselves.

My dilemma: how can we reconcile flourishing with a program that has been traditionally “competitive”?

Froshies experience pressure to join orgs and to compare themselves with high-performing peers. Is this conducive to flourishing?

Students inevitably compete with one another for limited popular internship positions. Is this conducive to flourishing?

Our K-12 system has popularized ranking systems and top 10 lists, which students internalize even during college. Is this conducive to flourishing?

How can we be consistent with a more virtues-based approach (comparing ourselves with our self) when our current context is peppered by rankings and GOAT conversations?

From my initial reads of student reflections, two approaches seem effective to promote flourishing and lessen distracting (and destructive) competitions: (1) a focus on thinking and feeling processes rather than “correct” answers, which train people to be comfortable with multiple rejections; and (2) positioning the program as a space where students get the opportunity to pursue causes greater than themselves – an ecosystem of support, healthy competition, and co-creative learning.

The youth will generally begin their journeys seeking validation from others while discovering who they are (self-awareness). We need to rethink our educational system, which should be less about outranking another and more about empowering a student to be a person capable of being the best version of themselves.


Mark 9:30-37. But they remained silent. For they had been discussing among themselves on the way who was the greatest.

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Necessary but not sufficient

As we navigate through the complexities of life, we often come across situations where certain conditions are deemed necessary for a desired outcome to materialize. However, it is important to recognize that just because a condition is necessary, it does not guarantee success. This notion can be best summed up in the phrase “necessary but not sufficient or guaranteed.”

It is easy to fall into the trap of assuming that meeting a necessary condition is enough to achieve a desired outcome. However, reality is rarely that simple. Additional factors can come into play, creating a multitude of possibilities that can impact the final outcome.

When it comes to matters of faith, the phrase “necessary but not sufficient” takes on particular significance. Many people believe that having faith is a necessary condition for salvation, spiritual growth, or a sense of purpose and meaning in life. However, having faith alone is not always sufficient to achieve these goals.

Maybe the challenge for us is to accept that nothing is guaranteed, but faith and sacrifice are necessary to increase the chances that we’ll live authentic and integrated lives.


Mark 9:14-29. When he entered the house, his disciples asked him in private, “Why could we not drive the spirit out?” He said to them, “This kind can only come out through prayer.”

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Love stops vicious cycles

“An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth” can set into motion a vicious cycle of revenge and retaliation. In systems thinking, this can be framed as a negative reinforcing loop that can degenerate societies.

The wisdom of turning the other cheek is perhaps a principle that aims to stop such vicious cycles from snowballing into a generational kind of hate. From the perspective of a greater good, “loving your enemies” seem a reasonable antidote to the poison of revenge.

However, from an individual perspective, loving one’s enemies can be a difficult and challenging task. It requires a great deal of emotional maturity, patience, and empathy to extend kindness and forgiveness to those who have wronged us. In some cases, it may even feel impossible to extend love and forgiveness to those who have committed heinous crimes or caused significant harm.

Loving to stop vicious cycles is such an impossible struggle. But in overcoming this pain, we allow our humanity to be at its fullest.


Matthew 5:38-48. For he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good, and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust.

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Meta

We can only radically change ourselves if we can think about how we think and reflect on how we reflect. In other words, metacognition and meta-reflection.

This is a level of self-awareness that forces us to think about our limits and transcend them.

In doing so, maybe we can approximate transfiguration, even if just a little bit.


Mark 9:2-13. He was transfigured before them.

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Mastering one’s self

I have assigned my students an individual reflection activity. The goal is for them to make sense of their journey so far in college by applying first-person tools in the spirit of authenticity and the general empirical method. In other words, the assignment is an opportunity for them to demonstrate what I call “sober self-awareness” or an insight about themselves.

I imagine writing this takes a lot of vulnerability. At the same time, I too feel vulnerable as I give them candid feedback and share my own thoughts too. I’d feel a lot like a hypocrite if I ask them to be authentic but I cannot reciprocate their authenticity!

Understanding or even attempting to master our “self” is not always a pleasant journey. Unlike the jolt we feel after answering a personality quiz, acquiring insights about our self can feel like the moment we sober up after a night of drinking. It feels like gazing at ourselves in the mirror, and at that moment, it is true that we are our own worst critic.

This is the second run I’ve given this assignment. It’s turning out that this is my favorite individual assignment, because I’ve been learning a lot from the insights of my students. There are times I feel guilty, because some of the pressures my students are feeling are byproducts of how me and my colleagues manage the curriculum.

In a way, acquiring a sober understanding of our “self” means identifying the crosses we have to bear. And in sharing a piece of our “self” with others, we share our vulnerability – our crosses – and we keep the faith that we can help each other carry our crosses.


Mark 8:34-9:1. Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.

[DAILY GOSPEL INSIGHTS AND REFLECTION FOR MANAGEMENT AND ORGANIZATION 2023-048: FEBRUARY 17, 2023]

God’s eye view

Our perspective is limited. Our thoughts and actions are often colored by biases, fears, and limited experiences. We tend to focus only on what is in front of us, unable to perceive the bigger picture.

However, by acknowledging our limitations and opening our minds to new ideas, we can begin to see things from a wider perspective. It’s like stepping back from a painting to see the full masterpiece.

Perhaps a “God’s eye view” evokes a sense of vastness and expansiveness akin to standing on a mountaintop, where we can take in the beauty and complexity of the world around us. From this higher perspective, we can see the interconnectedness of all things and the deeper meaning and purpose behind the events of our lives.

How can we reach the top of a metaphorical mountaintop? We have to keep faith that our friends and loved ones will lift us up.


Mark 8:27-33. You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do.

[DAILY GOSPEL INSIGHTS AND REFLECTION FOR MANAGEMENT AND ORGANIZATION 2023-047: FEBRUARY 16, 2023]

Are we really blind or are we just closing our eyes?

It can be difficult to discern whether we are truly blind to something or simply avoiding an uncomfortable truth. Some signs that we are closing our eyes to difficult truths include resistance, avoidance, and fear.

On the other hand, if we are open to new ideas and perspectives, engage in difficult conversations, and confront our biases, we may be working to remove our blindness.

The spirit that emerges from authentic dialogue may parallel the transcendent power that can heal our blindness.


Mark 8:22-26. “Do you see anything?”

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Opening ourselves to unexpected insight and love

Insight and love parallel each other. Just as an open mind is required for insights to emerge, an open heart is needed for love to manifest.

The challenge is that both insight and love cannot be manufactured. They can be stimulated or cultivated, but they usually visit us like a serendipitous encounter. For love and insight to visit us, we must first understand ourselves and the thinking and feeling traps we usually fall into that may prevent us from being open.

It is a dance between our willingness to be vulnerable and our need to protect ourselves. But just as dancing may make a fool out of ourselves at times, the right timing can feel like grace – where everything falls into place perfect harmony with ourselves and those around us.


Mark 8:14-21. Do you not yet understand or comprehend? Are your hearts hardened?

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Inquiry should not entrap but liberate

Testing others not to discover the truth but simply to prove them wrong is not an act of authentic inquiry or intellectual curiosity, but rather an act of ego and arrogance.

When we approach a situation with the sole purpose of proving someone wrong, we close ourselves off to the possibility of learning something new or gaining a deeper understanding of the world around us.

Authentic inquiry is not about creating quicksands, but rather about creating an oasis that can quench our curiosity, even if only for a moment.

This can inspire us to walk through a seemingly messy and absurd desert and discover hidden paradises of meaning.


Mark 8:11-13. …seeking from him a sign from heaven to test him.

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